The question is asked every time a person dies: how do you sum up a life? How do you capture the emotion, the wit, and the charm of a person? How do you push together the years into a few sentences – years of a doting husband, a wonderful father and grandfather, an active church member and teacher, and, professionally, a gentleman scientist? It’s just not possible, and that’s especially true of the life of Harvey Lee Kincaid, Jr.
In a stroke of poetry and providence, Harvey died in the same city – Houston, Texas – where he was born (August 31, 1942) and raised, though he hadn’t lived there for a long time. He left Houston to attend Vanderbilt University in 1960, a year fraught with health challenges that nearly killed him. When he returned to his hometown the first time, he could boast several achievements, including surviving that first year of college. He had graduated with a degree in English and went on to garner another undergraduate degree, this time in chemistry from TCU. His attention had turned sternly in the direction of studying science now. From TCU, he earned a master’s degree in chemistry and physics from Baylor University. And, in between all his classes, papers, and labs, he managed to court his lifelong partner, Nancy Kincaid, a fellow graduate student. They married on July 8, 1967, and that’s when Harvey, along with Nancy, moved to Houston. Why Houston? Harvey knew he wasn’t done with school. This time he enrolled in the doctorate program in biochemistry at the University of Texas Health Center, MD Anderson. His move into the world of biology and chemistry helped to shape his extensive career path, a path that took him up to the very day he died, still gainfully employed as a principal scientist for a pharmaceutical company in Indiana.
When Harvey died on Good Friday, April 2, 2021, at MD Anderson Cancer Center, he brought back to Houston a life overflowing. He had traveled around the world and accomplished monumental successes in working with labs from Shanghai to Geneva, and from Indianapolis to Los Angeles. His curiosity and love for learning added several additional degrees in business and, most recently, counseling. His life was not without raw failures and learned humility, but his sincerity brought in view a network of friends. His open-handed generosity and practiced patience kept his family close. He exhibited simple kindness, and, most importantly, a distinct love for the things of God.
When Harvey fell ill his freshman year of college with dreadful intestinal pain, he wasn’t ready to die. God’s good hand of providence placed him in a particular Catholic hospital at a tender moment, rife to change him. While he recovered from a surgery that left a visible scar near his stomach for the rest of his life, Harvey looked up to see a crucifix on the wall. Then and there, he decided to change course and live his life for and about Jesus Christ alone. He grew up hearing his father teach Sunday School and his mother sing in the choir, so the shift in his perspective might seem slight and unnecessary from a distance. But, the moment ravished him and he never doubted the deepest and most fundamental call on his life.
After PhD studies, Harvey and Nancy welcomed their first boy, Harvey Lee III. And, as if on cue two years later brought them another boy, Zachry Owen, and the same rhythm for a third boy, Phillip Lindsey. Finally, with a pause of three years, they added a girl to their family of six, Caroline Ann. In those years of expectation, Harvey and Nancy moved several times, from Honolulu, Hawaii, to Lexington, Kentucky, and then to the Washington DC area. By this time, in 1980, Harvey was stacking up a nice resume with work at various hospitals, performing research of different types. But he was getting anxious for what he really wanted to do, how he could really make an impact. The young couple thought about working overseas in Christian ministry or pursuing his passion for teaching at a Christian college. But neither choice seemed to open up. Instead, they moved to Tampa, Florida, to settle into a new kind of direction as he became laboratory director at SmithKline Laboratories.
In Tampa, Florida, Harvey quickly rose in the ranks at SmithKline, but perhaps more importantly, he dedicated himself to his family. He taught Sunday School, coached youth soccer, and volunteered as a youth counselor. He modeled for his family and the wider world that rare persistence, “to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesians 4:1-2). That would be his mantra until the end.
Once the children were grown, Harvey and Nancy decided to make another move, this time to Indianapolis. In 1998, Harvey became director of chemistry at Covance, a pharmaceutical company that is now part of LabCorp. His 23-year tenure included an array of titles and responsibilities. His steady demeanor and gifted insight made him the go-to director to start new projects around the globe as well as fix ailing ones.
He never forgot his roots. He loved old Westerns and that call to adventure, to what was wild and untamed. Harvey and Nancy planned to move to Muskogee, Oklahoma, in retirement, into the 110-year-old homestead of her family. He wanted to, “put out his shingle,” as he was prone to say, and begin a marriage counseling practice.
What caused Harvey’s death? He had a rare form of leukemia that was managed for several years through a series of ongoing treatments. Those treatments stopped working in February 2021. His next move brought him to MD Anderson, to the team who developed the original regiment and were working alternate paths to fight the same disease. For several days, bleakness turned to rejoicing. Harvey seemed to respond to the new medicine. But, sometimes the end is not coming; sometimes the end is here. Harvey had zero white blood cells when he died, but with a kind look and a squeeze of the hand, he died with his bride of almost 54 years at his side. He knew it was actually the beginning of another adventure, that his hope was in the bodily resurrection of Jesus, and, so too, the resurrection of the dead. It was this truth he clung to in life and now in death.
Perhaps he recalled one of his favorite hymns during those last moments, “Fairest Lord Jesus”:
Fair is the sunshine, fairer still the moonlight
And all the twinkling starry host
Jesus shines brighter, Jesus shines purer
Than all the angels heaven can boast.
Beautiful Savior! Lord of all the nations
Son of God and Son of Man
Glory and honor, praise, adoration
Now and forevermore be thine.
He possibly returned in his mind to the biblical passage he knew from memory. It certainly seems probable given both his faith and his dire predicament.
Jesus said to his disciples, “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat, nor about your body, what you will put on. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds! And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? If then you are not able to do as small a thing as that, why are you anxious about the rest? Consider the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass, which is alive in the field today, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, how much more will he clothe you, O you of little faith! And do not seek what you are to eat and what you are to drink, nor be worried. For all the nations of the world seek after these things, and your Father knows that you need them. Instead, seek his kingdom, and these things will be added to you” (Luke 12:22-30).
Harvey leaves a legacy, not because he hunted for one, but because day by day he lived faithfully. As part of that legacy, he leaves Nancy, his four children (Harvey, Zachry, Phillip, and Caroline), and his grandchildren (Micah, Caleb, Benjamin, Quinn, Corrina, James, Elias, and Bennie).
(written by Zachry Kincaid)
If you’re interested in a way to honor Harvey, we encourage you to give to Life Centers of Indianapolis, an organization he supported every month.
We invite you to read comments from around the world below.
On 2021-07-02 by Susan and Algie Sims
Nancy, Wherever you and the family are today, know that our hearts and our best memories are with you. You know, Harvey was a subtile and profound blessing to us and our children- your house just seemed to expand and expand as he and you welcomed almost literally everybody to your “table”. Harvey, at the head of the table, encouraged expression and conversation- and fierce , logical debate. I’ve never enjoyed so lively gatherings!! We are celebrating him with you all in the communion of saints! Here and in heaven! His example lives on in you., thanks be to God! We’ll be loving you tomorrow .
Susan and Algie Sims,
Anna, Mollie, and Algie III
Charlotte, NC
On 2021-04-27 by Mark Sharp
I met Harvey on a trip to Indianapolis and we worked together on several projects. He will surely be missed. He was a kind, gentle, and very smart person. I wish that I had known more about his faith life and could have connected with him on that level also. After reading the above it made me think of one of my favorite songs, I Can Only Imagine by MercyMe. We miss our loved ones and my condolences go out to all his family and friends but my hope is in what a day that will be when we meet HIM face to face.
On 2021-04-26 by Cristina Hedin
Wonderful memory Zach.
It was a pleasure and honor to have worked with Harvey. He was a gentle leader, kind and extremely knowledgeable. One thing I remember was his quest for learning. He never stopped. Not only he left a big impression on Covance, he will certainly be missed. Prayers and thoughts and my sincere condolences to the family during this difficult time.
On 2021-04-26 by Doug Ellett
I have such fond memories of working with Harvey while at Covance. He was always so smart, inspirational and courteous, plus he had a good business sense on one package. I absolutely LOVED traveling with Harvey to events like the AACC, where I got to know Harvey on a more personal level. Harvey's sense of humor has left smiling for days on end. Harvey's memory will live on in each of us and he remains one of the greatest men I've ever known. His passing saddens me deeply as my eyes fill with tears while writing this message.
On 2021-04-25 by Dave Marsh
Wonderful writing, Zach. Thank you. It was so good to learn more about Harvey, Nancy, your family, and your lives together. Harvey and I became colleagues and then friends. We met weekly for a couple of years down in his office in Med Affairs to read a Psalm and pray together. It's those times I remember now. As Annette said, we look forward with you to seeing him again––as indeed we will. "Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity." [I Corinthians 13.12]
On 2021-04-21 by Tracy Tan
It has been a pleasure working with Harvey! He is a great leader, who inspired the team and provide great leadership to the Automated Chemistry family, a solution provider and great collaborative spirit. We're so lucky to meet a noble man like Harvey, for sure we will miss him and Harvey will always be in our heart. Rest well dear Dr. Kincaid, we salute you!
On 2021-04-19 by Rachel Volis
What a wonderful tribute. I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Kincaid on a few occasions. I always appreciated how knowledgeable, calm, kind, and guiding he was. He will definitely be missed. He left a wonderful impact in this world! Prayers for the family during this difficult time.
On 2021-04-16 by Hilde Boeykens
I never had the joy to meet Dr Kincaid in person, but I did have the pleasure to work with him on a couple of occasions. I largely appreciate is fantastic knowledge, and the way he shared that knowledge, his approachability, his patience. I will always remember him, as Gentleman Scientist, with a warm feeling in my heart. My thoughts are with you.
On 2021-04-15 by Deborah Keller
Nancy and family I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Harvey, as you well know, was a special person and personified what it meant to be a good person. Working with Harvey was a joy. I loved dry his sense of humor. I remember when we ask you to consider heading to China to start up the laboratory....Harvey was surprised that we ask him probably thinking we wanted someone younger. I wanted Harvey. I knew he would excel in this role and it was so much fun to visit and see his excitement and enthusiasm as well as the dedication the team had for Harvey. I cannot thank him enough for his leadership, dedication and hard work throughout his career. His impact on patients around the world will never be forgotten. Gentleman Scientist, indeed. May he Rest In Peace. May your memories give you solace. Thank you for sharing him with us.
On 2021-04-15 by Leanne Flye
Harvey was an absolute joy to work with. His knowledge in so many disciplines made him an excellent teacher and mentor to many. He was kind, he was brilliant, and he will be sorely missed. I pray for the comfort of his family and close friends.
On 2021-04-15 by Rebecca Kasmer
The tribute to Dr. Kincaid was a lovely read. His attention to his beautiful wife and family, his faith and his work was even more touching. I remember his smile and always saying hello to each other as we passed in the hallway. I didn't work along side him but knew others that did. I know he was willing to go wherever and do whatever was needed...his knowledge was well respected. May your family know he was appreciated and will be greatly missed as a scientist, colleague and a smile passing in the hallway. Thank you Dr. Kincaid. May God provide peace and comfort to your family during these days, weeks and months ahead.
On 2021-04-15 by Karen Heier
I am so sorry to hear of Harvey's illness and that he has left us. I knew Harvey when he worked at SmithKline and worked with him for many years at Covance. He was a wonderful partner for the sales organization and a valuable consultant for clients. His legacy will go on for many years to come as he supported and led through so many scientific/technical challenges for our pharmaceutical clients. My deepest sympathy to the Kincaid family and thank you for sharing Harvey with us for so many years
On 2021-04-15 by Keith Hutchison
I will always be grateful to you Dr. Kincaid for how you supported me throughout my career at Covance. I would always laugh when you would ask me if I was ready to come back to the lab and work for your team. It always made me feel appreciated! Rest in Peace! You will be missed.
On 2021-04-15 by Vincent Drouillon
A great tribute for a great Man. Harvey's contribution and dedication to make millions patients lives better is an example for all of us to follow. Beyond being an exceptional Scientist and a respected business Leader, Dr Kincaid will be most remembered for who he was; around the world and by many colleagues and friends.
On 2021-04-14 by Abhinav HP
Very sorry to hear this. May your soul rest in peace.
On 2021-04-14 by Lydia Tay
I am very sorry for your loss. Dr Kincaid supported me in some challenging Medical Affairs queries from clients. He was always kind and knowledgeable. The tribute you wrote to Dr Kincaid shows the full life he led and the lives he touched. Thank you for sharing him with us.
On 2021-04-14 by Anonymous
My deepest condolences to the family, friends and relatives. May God strength you in this difficult times. RIP Harvey Lee Kincaid, Jr.
On 2021-04-14 by Shovonna Burcham
I can’t believe how beautifully you captured how you felt about him. I will post my memory below and wish you nothing but peace. On vacation. I open my work email for the first time to see this. 💔 One of my most challenging work memories. Ever. He made me cry in front of people. He hung up the phone on me. I was so pissed that I cried. I rarely cry when sad and almost always cry when angry or happy. I marched downstairs to his administrative assistant and demanded to see him (and I’m sure only because of the tears) he let me in. He talked to me about airplanes for foreeever. Not the issue at hand. It made me even more impatient and I cringed and grinded my teeth, but I listened a and eventually the message was there. He was a firm “no” to the client and he had reason to back it up. It still pissed me off, but I followed through. Talkative man, and....worth his words. ❤️
On 2021-04-13 by Scott Madison, MT (ASCP)
Dear Kincaid family,
Thank you for sharing this wonderful tribute with the Covance at LabCorp family. I personally know the pain and challenge that cancer brings and want to share what Dr. Harvey Kincaid brought to my life during my fight with rectal cancer: He brought the joy of weekly prayer and the promise that Jesus would see me through the fight. I look forward to seeing Harvey (and hopefully all of you in the Kincaid family) in the Resurrection. Harvey, thank you again for everything you shared with me.
On 2021-04-13 by Anonymous
Our condolences to the family may God strength you in this difficult times.
On 2021-04-13 by Mark Gregor
I got to know Dr. Kincaid in more depth while he was the Los Angeles site lead working with him on a project to expand the lab. He was very observant and valued the input of the LA staff. One of the most memorable memories I have was when I visited the Geneva site. There happened to be a townhall meeting that day of which I attended. Jean-Mark the site lead at the time impromptu asked Harvey to step up to the microphone and announce the employees with years of service milestones. Harvey struggled at times pronouncing some of the names but the audience enjoyed it and gave Harvey a big round of applause at the end for his effort. He handled it with dignity and class like the man he was. God Bless.
On 2021-04-13 by D'Onna Robinson
So incredibly sorry for your loss.
On 2021-04-13 by Raymond N
Such a lovingly written tribute to an incredible man. Catching the train with Harvey was always a treat when he was stationed in Geneva. His friendly and welcoming demeanour made him a pleasure to chat with. I had the privilege to work with him on several lab projects where his tremendous scientific expertise and leadership was extremely valuable. I will always remember him as a brilliant, strong, yet at the same time gentle leader. He has left an everlasting legacy with his work at Covance and he will be greatly missed. May God comfort his family and loved ones whom he’s left behind.
On 2021-04-13 by Harsha GS
May God give the strength to the family to bear the loss of dear one and may his sole rest in peace.
On 2021-04-13 by Angela Schemm
I am very grateful for the brief time that I was able to work with Dr. Kincaid at Covance,/Labcorp, Los Angeles. what a treasure it is to share professionally with someone whose faith shined everyday in a naturally. May God have mercy on his soul and comfort all of you during this time of loss. And may your loss turned into treasured memories.
On 2021-04-13 by Dan Herlihy
Beautiful words for a wonderful man. As a co-worker, I greatly enjoyed my interactions with Harvey and always appreciated and respected his input. Harvey personified the Gentleman Scientist title - myself and Covance/Labcorp were the benefits of his hard work and dedication over the past 23 years. May his legacy live on his family, friends, colleagues and patients who's lives were impacted by his work and examples of his kindness and thoughtfulness.
On 2021-04-13 by Anagh Vora
@John Laczin,
Well said Dr. Laczin!
On 2021-04-13 by Anagh Vora
I got to know Dr. Kincaid working with him on complex medical issues in Medical Affairs. In the almost two years that I got to know him professionally, I was struck by his sincere demeanor and deep scientific knowledge! He was the definition of a gentleman scholar (exacting in his science and generous in his spirit)! I learned so much from him simply observing how he spoke to make his case, rebutted arguments, and mentored his colleagues and even his bosses! Rest in Peace.
On 2021-04-13 by Stacy Stocker
Mr. Kincaid was always a wonderful resource at Covance. His input was valued and sought after as an ultimate resource. I often ran into Harvey at the Marsh store in Carmel when my family lived there. He was always such a friendly and sweet man at work and away. My heart sank when I heard that we had lost him, but heaven has gained him. Imagine the good that he has added to that precious collection!
On 2021-04-13 by Anne Dayer
I was just starting my expatriate life in Singapore establishing our project management department in Asia Pac. Shanghai was the most challenging spot for me as the language barrier was high. I met Dr. Kincaid on many occasions while traveling to Shanghai from Singapore, and then as a Shanghai expatriate myself. What I remind of him is his kindness. We were drinking our Starbuck coffee and having a sandwich at the shop near the office place. My Shanghainese team members told me that for them Dr. Kincaid was everything they could expect from as manager. He was knowledgeable, calm in all situations, and his only presence was reassuring for the people in the room, just a natural aura. I share your sadness. This news really touched me deep, because Dr. Kincaid was an out of the ordinary kind heart, and he was there when I faced this special time in my professional life.
On 2021-04-13 by Wendy Korson
I met Harvey when I began working at Covance in 2004. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word. Harvey's gentleness was an inspiration to those who were privileged to know him. My prayers are with your family to find comfort in your memories until the day you are reunited with him. Godspeed, Harvey.
On 2021-04-13 by John Laczin
Harvey was always a delight! To be polite, refined, very perceptive and articulate are qualities that increase the effectiveness of any gentleman scientist, all of which Harvey had in abundance, and openly modeled to everyone with whom he worked. Harvey saw many points of view, especially those that truly mattered to accomplish a goal. That's a worthy skill and legacy. Well done, friend! Rest well. For those who grieve now, my deepest condolences and wishes for your happiest memories. I offer my thoughts and prayers for you.
On 2021-04-13 by Stephanie Cape
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story of Harvey’s life. I only recently met Harvey as we both joined the Scientific Affairs team at the same time last year. I am honored and humbled to have known him if even for this short time.
On 2021-04-13 by CB
Zach, I must say your father must be smiling regarding the brief summarization you wrote about of his life journey, it's just beautiful. Harvey was truly an inspiration to many of us at Covance and we will surely miss him. Thank you for sharing his story!
On 2021-04-13 by Priyanka Nayak
My deepest condolences to the family, Harvey in his own way has touched the lives of so many patients across the world through his work and has been inspiring in so many ways. He will be missed.
On 2021-04-13 by Monica Fenley
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. I held Dr. Kincaid with the highest regard, and he truly lived his life as you shared. He definitely left a legacy and touched so many lives.
On 2021-04-13 by Amber LaFayette
I had the pleasure of working with Harvey while working from remote in Madison, Wisconsin. I remember his kindness and willingness to help make our studies better with his mentorship and support. He was instrumental and a solution maker & implementer. I am very sorry for your loss. May the wonderful memories of him bring warmth to your heart.
On 2021-04-13 by MM
May the road rise to me you. May the wind be at your back. May sun shine warm upon your face, the rain fall soft upon your fields, and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
On 2021-04-13 by Dawn Hunt
I've admired and trusted Harvey for years; I only knew him professionally but he was always helpful and collaborative and it was obvious he cared about his work and its integrity. My sympathies go out to his family and close friends. May you find peace in this time of sorrow.
On 2021-04-13 by Raphael Bonzi
Great person, Great knowledge, great humanity, Huge loss.
On 2021-04-13 by Robin Carson
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. Harvey was exactly as you described, always kind. I hope you find peace in knowing he touched so many people through so many avenues.
On 2021-04-13 by Lee Mankin
I'm so privileged to have met and worked with Harvey. What an amazing gentleman. He will be missed.
On 2021-04-13 by Trish Hodgson
I worked with Harvey since he first arrived in Indy in 1998. To say he was a rare gentleman feels like such an understatement. He was kind, intelligent, and had the patience of a saint but most of all ...he was just a good human. I just spoke to you a few weeks Harvey! You were looking into another solution to help your teams! You will be greatly missed ~ the world was a better place for having you in it. Thank you for all you did throughout your lifetime to ensure medicine and people were safe.
On 2021-04-13 by K Randle
What a beautiful tribute to such a beautiful spirit. It was always nice to encounter someone who did not hide their love for God in the workplace. Praying God's peace and comfort surround your family and flood your hearts. Rest well, Dr. Kincaid.
On 2021-04-13 by Joe M.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I never received the honor of meeting Harvey but it seems the lives he touched are better due to meeting him. I’m sorry for your loss.
On 2021-04-13 by Kunal Vyas
Thank you for sharing his story, he has always been an inspiration for me. Very hardworking and trustworthy. May his soul rest in peace. We appreciate all he has done for the Covance.
On 2021-04-13 by Annette Botzum
How do I tell you what knowing Harvey has meant to me? He touched my life by praying with and for me in two specific situations. He was a bright light in what seemed like very dark moments. I am deeply sorry for your loss and I grieve with you in this time. I prefer not to say goodbye but to say until we meet again and it is my desire to see him again. I pray that God brings you peace, His presence and sweet comfort.
On 2021-04-13 by Mark Arnold
I've only known Harvey a short time, but he was a true gentleman, and always willing to talk about science, offering his insights and advice.
On 2021-04-13 by Linda Yare
I worked with Harvey at Covance and found him to be made of that rare blend of integrity and honesty. A trustworthy member of the Covance family. Thank you for all you have given us.
On 2021-04-13 by Merlie Pais
May his soul rest in peace.
On 2021-04-13 by Virginia Litwin
God speed Harvey. I am so the better for having had the privilege of knowing you and working with you. I learned from you and I admired you. So many lovely memories of dinners with you and the ever-charming Nancy.
On 2021-04-10 by Sue4foltz@gmail.com
Nancy, thanks for sharing your lives with us. You and Harvey were so blessed to have each other, your love and respect for each other was always evident. You and Harvey have blessed Dick and me immensely. You both have great godly wisdom and insight. We enjoyed reading of Harvey's many accomplishments and of your youth together. He was brilliant, humble and kind in all his ways a very gentle spirit. My heart aches at the empty feeling of having part if you missing. I know your love for each other remains strong and we thank the Lord for life everafter and the great family reunion to come. You and your family will remain in our hearts and prayers. With our love. Dick and Sue
On 2021-04-10 by Yanna Ma
Beautiful story, wonderful man! May him rest in peace.
On 2021-04-09 by Jan & Bob Alford
Beautiful tribute to a wonderful man. We know he will be missed. Praying for the family.
On 2021-04-09 by Becky Cacciatore
What a beautiful and memorable tribute to the love of your life and the amazing father to your children! We share in your sorrow and most importantly, your steadfast hope in the truth of life everlasting in Christ Jesus.
Our thoughts and prayers will be you,
David and Becky Cacciatore
On 2021-04-09 by Margaret & Gene
What a beautiful love story!! Thank you Nancy for sharing it with us. We know you have many, many more precious memories! We sure enjoyed having him as our Sunday School teacher. We won’t stop praying for you and your family. We love you and miss you.
Margaret& Gene
On 2021-04-09 by JERRY and DeAnn Shrewsbury
We’ve know Harvey and Nancy since they joined NBC about 20 years ago. Just a nice couple that were faithful to the church while generally keeping a low profile. Lord bless his soul🙏🏻
On 2021-04-09 by Jimmy Alley
Mr. Kincaid was the best. So kind. Always sharing what he had. As a youth he was one of my heroes. His example of humility and love for other people will always be remembered.
On 2021-04-09 by George Li
Hi Nancy,
When reading the story of Harvey's entire life and seeing his photos, my eyes are filled with tears. Lots of good time we spent together come to my mind again. I feel so proud to have such a great friend. He will be missed by us for ever! Take care!
George
On 2021-04-09 by Xueling Yuan
Dear Nancy,
Dr. Kincaid is one of the most important personals in my life. He was so knowledgeable, resourceful and I learnt so much from him. I’m very sorry for his leaving. Will never forget the days working with him. Take care!
On 2021-04-09 by Xiaobo Chen
Hi Nancy:
Shanghai laboratory team numbers are missing the great time worked with Harvey.
On 2021-04-09 by Curt Waters
Dear Nancy, I have been praying for you and Harvey for the last few weeks. I know Harvey has struggled with cancer for some years now. It seems, by reading your wonderful bio of your lives, Harvey influenced many lives for the glory of our Lord. He certainly influenced mine. I have such fond memories of our Bible discussions during SS at Northside. I have been hoping you two would make it back home in Indiana so we could pick up where we left off. I often wondered what drove Harvey to continue working at 70+ years old. He was a man of purpose for sure. Above all Harvey exemplified the fruit of the Christian spirit- especially gentleness! I hope I get to see you again here in Carmel. I am praying for peace and God’s comfort in the coming days of grief.
On 2021-04-09 by Ron Friedman
A beautiful tribute to a life lived well. May his legacy be enfleshed in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved him.
On 2021-04-08 by Harvalee and Taylor
Nancy, you wrote a beautiful remembrance of you and Harvey. Of your lives together. So many things I didn't know. I hope you can feel my arms around you. You have been so blessed to have found each other ...I loved being in S. S. with the two of you when Harvey was teaching ...the two of you brought out the best of the other one. I enjoyed seeing what socks Harvey would wear...his socks always made a statement. Love you and praying God's best to continue for you and children and all of the lives he has touched.
On 2021-04-08 by Carolyn Speckman
We loved and respected Harvey for his gentle, sweet, kind spirit and his faithful teaching and example of God's word. We thank God for his life and we will miss him.
On 2021-04-08 by Janet Seaman
This is such a beautiful reminder of what a kind and loving man Harvey was. The Bible verses describes him perfectly. Always enjoyed being in his Sunday School Class. He was so knowledgeable. He will truly be missed.
Nancy, our hearts are breaking for you and we are praying for you and your family. Love and hugs.
On 2021-04-08 by Darlena MYER
Nancy my heart aches 💔 for you. You have been such a loving, Christian, loyal wife. Always sacrificing for your husband and family. You have been such a dear friend to me. I now will be praying 🙏for you in your time of mourning. All though we are miles apart I'm a text away. Give my thoughts and Prayers to your wonderful family. Love Darlena
On 2021-04-08 by Gretchen Jacob
Reading this brought back so many special memories that we had the privilege of sharing with you all in Lexington. Bob and I fell in love with all of you. We spent happy jaunts in DC and then in Fl. There were always tears of laughter and lots of dirty faces at the end of the day between Our 6 boys and 1 girl. While Nancy and I scrambled after the kids, Bob and Harvey always managed hours of talk either regarding their shared faith and love of science. I am sure there is rejoicing in heaven. We are so blessed to have been a part of his world. We love you.