the kincaidibles

Every year, for 20 years, we’ve sent a custom card to households around the country. It’s a defining moment for our family, not so much to show how much we smile (because we don’t) or how successful we are (because we’re not), but more as a pointer to something beyond us - to rework, reimagine, re-enchant, realize anew the call of the Gospel. We hope the reflections below will, from past years and this year, will be a blessing. We’ve also included some video selections that you might like or abhor, some from Israel journeys and some from other places. A link to family photos is below.
Lore and legend are the stuff of story. It’s what happens when enough time passes. How we tell those stories helps us shape or misshape each other, sharpen or dull the blades of reality. Our current clan is outside of DC. Wed in 1994, my wife and I now have three boys who make up a rock-n-roll band we call the kincaidibles (even if it’s like Shel Silverstein’s rock-n-roll band). We invite you to see more of their story on a Youtube page desperately needing an update but holding a nice treasure of archival (very amateur) footage.
<< The chiefs of Clan Kincaid are said to be descended from several families including the ancient Earls of Lennox. Above is the family shield. Read more.
Christmas Reflections
O come,
Between Heaven and Hell,
Earth, formless and void.
O come
Between God’s breath and the serpent’s deception,
a couple sins.
In those days of Caesar Augustus, you could see the Temple from the nearby fields where shepherds tended sheep, raised as a ready sacrifice for a person’s sin.
The desert of unprophetic years turns on a moment. It catches stars and pulls them in close like a surgeon caring for a dying patient. An angel descends looking for a certain teenage girl named Mary. When he locates her, she is startled by his appearance and his announcement. The nature of the news invites her to question…
Faith carries weight, gravity, and history. Christ in you, the hope of glory, begins at the beginning, where nothingness blooms into a garden, into seas, into beasts and birds, rocks and trees. God speaks it into being and it is. And for humans, God breathes in his very own breath.
The Christmas story is a puzzle, pulling together whispers from old rabbis, rumors lifted from dusty scrolls, with the surprise of shepherds and singing heavenly hosts. It sows prophecy to fact, theology to gravity, eternity to time, holy to pedestrian.
If you sit on the edge of the mountainous terrain of southern Jerusalem, you can see Herodium in the distance as it hovers over the particular lowly city of Bethlehem, just three miles away.
Hannah is the mother of Samuel, the greatest prophet of Israel. Year after year, she and her husband prayed to have a child, but God didn’t bless them. Before her song in I Samuel 2, we find Hannah weeping outside the Tabernacle.
It took time to create time, to begin at the beginning, to speak out the sun, moon, and stars – setting up alternate spindles of day and night…
God sends out Gabriel with a message. Taken from a scene in the Holy of Holies where angels overshadow the mercy seat of God, the power of the Most High overshadows a young girl with the miracle of a virgin birth.
God made the sun to rule the day, and the moon, the night (Gen. 1:3-4). He made the stars too, calling the whole backdrop we see, the sky (Gen. 1:16). From it comes heralded help and hurled down judgement. (Ex. 16:13-14; I Kings 18:37-38).
By way of a crazy-eyed Abram who saw beyond the stars, through the whored veil of Tamar who turned a trick on Judah, up Rahab’s red sash and hiding atop the lonely Jericho room…
After they listened to the devil’s sweet nothings, all nature groaned. “How cant it be? These God bearers fall from a cliff when they can hide in the cleft. In a bite, in a whisper, they plot to unwrap dependence…”
Everything dropped / Heavy gravity / Heaven stumbled into the magnetic prop / that is Earth.
Some things need no voice. They are far too painful. Their trials leave more angst than reward. But we must press on. If we stop among the valleys, the mountains might move. Jesus talked about mountains moving once, but that’s getting ahead of the story.
As she cripples her way in, the room turns. She stands several heads shorter than her brother and hobbles along, dragging one leg that never returns any answers. With every step she tries to keep up with her family, linked together by tired arms and sweaty hands.
To his mother Mary, a Son and Savior. (Luke 1:47;2:16)
For the wise men, the king that has come. (Matthew 2:11)
Salvation seen for Simeon. (Luke 2:30)
When Eden gets boarded up by Adam and Eve’s sin, we begin to wander far away. We try to prop up a tower of our own, made from the stuff of rivalry and conceit. But God baptizes our arrogance in his judgement, setting his servant adrift on an ark.
God looked out from his Sabbath rest, before creation leapt from his lips, and chose to establish earth out of nothing.
The Christmas season poses a heightened challenge to us: can we look beyond ourselves and into the divinity that has come down from heaven in the person of Jesus? Not that alone, but can we embrace the uncertainty that comes from total surrender?
don't be afraid. / this must be amazing grace, / electricity in the air, / a galvanic presence from beyond, / brought down and tangled up / in chalcedon blessing; / son of God, son of man.
Make me your Bethlehem,
humble and waiting
for Israel's prophet who sows the root of Jesse
to reap the very Son of God.
He moves into place and pushes off the uterine wall, lodging his head in the cervix. He sinks lower, ready to break out, or in, like a thief.
In the old days, the sky roamed much closer. Legend speaks of people peeling it off and eating it for food. Its abundance created a peace in all corners of the earth because no one wanted for anything.
Long ago Sarah laughed. Her furrowed womb would finally be full, a miracle to outdo the stars. Every part of her flesh came alive.
Video Selections
Luke 2: Glory to God in the Highest
What A Beautiful Name
(Featuring Hillsong)

Unsettling the Settlers: The Failure of the Church
(Featuring Brennan Manning)

The Story of God’s Faithfulness
(Featuring John and Susan Yates, part 1)

“Shame on You, American Church”
(Featuring churches pre-1776)

Worship shouldn’t be “happy-clappy”
Click here for more on Lowell Sykes
O Glorious Day
(Featuring Casting Crowns)
Faith Stories for Christmas
August 6, 1871 – September 7, 1925
"Go tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere; go tell it on the mountain, that Jesus Christ is born."
August 18, 1856 - September 14, 1932
Composer
From Wilton, Iowa
Served in Hollywood, California
Affiliation: Presbyterian
"Be near me, Lord Jesus, I ask Thee to stay/Close by me forever, and love me, I pray..."
December 12, 1840 - December 24, 1912
Missionary to China
From Albemarle County, Virginia
Served in Penglai, China and later in the areas of P'ingtu and Hwangshien
Affiliation: Baptist
"How many there are ... who imagine that because Jesus paid it all, they need pay nothing, forgetting that the prime object of their salvation was that they should follow in the footsteps of Jesus Christ in bringing back a lost world to God."
December 5, 1830 – December 29, 1894
"What can I give Him, Poor as I am? —If I were a Shepherd, I would bring a lamb; If I were a Wise ManI would do my part, —Yet what I can I give Him, —Give my heart.”
April 10, 1829 - August 20, 1912
"The chief danger of the 20th century will be religion without the Holy Spirit, Christianity without Christ, forgiveness without repentance, salvation without regeneration, politics without God, and heaven without hell."
March 24, 1820 - February 12, 1915
"Come to the feet of our infant Redeemer, Come where today in a manger He lies; Lift up our hearts in a song of devotion, Let our hosannas with gladness arise."
January 30, 1792 - January 9, 1868
"O star of wonder, star of night, Star with royal beauty bright, Westward leading, still proceeding, Guide us to thy perfect light."
January 3, 1773 - December 4, 1848
"Silent night, holy night,
All is calm, all is bright
Round yon virgin mother and child.
Holy infant, so tender and mild,
Sleep in heavenly peace,
Sleep in heavenly peace."
April 16, 1711 - August 16, 1786
"Yea, Lord, we greet Thee, born this happy morning; Jesus, to Thee be all glory giv’n; Word of the Father, now in flesh appearing."
December 1, 1707 - March 29, 1788
"HARK how all the Welkin rings, Glory to the King of Kings, Peace on Earth, and Mercy mild, GOD and Sinners reconcil'd!”
March 5, 1685 - April 14, 1759
"I should be sorry if I only entertained them, I wish to make them better."
July 17, 1674 - November 25, 1748
"Joy to the world, the Lord is come! Let earth receive her King; Let every heart prepare Him room, And Heaven and nature sing..."
After they listened to the devil’s sweet nothings, all nature groaned. “How can it be? These God-bearers fall from a cliff when they can hide in the cleft. In a bite, in a whisper, they plot out how to unwrap dependence.